What people want and need are based on what they have had or experienced throughout their lives. We all have different backgrounds, different needs and different ways of thinking. What might be really helpful to one person, might be useless to another.
There is never a black or white answer to how someone is. I might see that person as a friend, inspiration, role model, while you find that same person to be your enemy, disincentive, etc. There is nothing wrong with this, it just shows that you need someone different. There really isn’t any argument to this, because there isn’t a right or wrong answer.
However, it does make me question how these differences occur. This goes back to the horse drawn carriage and car analogy. If you have always had an horse drawn carriage, a car is a car, if you are someone who has always had a car, then you would want a newer model, or “nicer” car (probably horrible analogy). Bleeeergh, brain freeeze, might get back to this later….
I miss this person, but haven’t had the time to visit :(
random rambling AGAIN..